Sex positions that will take you there...
"The last few times we did it, I wasn't really satisfied. I had to fake an orgasm. How do I make it better for me?"
Sounds familiar?
Most of us women go through this situation. Sex isn't meant only to pleasure the male; so make sure you're not missing out on the fun, while he frolics around.
These are a few positions you could use to make sure you get to paradise along with him.
1. Woman on top
"The feeling of being in control can be a potent aphrodisiac by itself," says Dr Jagdish Shah, a sexologist. If you feel too exposed sitting astride your partner in bed, start off on the sofa where you can sit on his lap.
"This position is known to give a woman's clitoris maximum stimulation," says Dr Shah.
2. Old school
Enjoying the missionary position does not make you puritanical! Dr Rinky Jethani, a sexologist, explains many women love being dominated.
"This position can be explored in more ways than one. Talk dirty in each other's ears if you want to spice it up," she says.
3. Make him stand?
While you sit on a slightly higher surface. Since you are at the level of his waist, it doesn't take him much effort to penetrate you. You will be opening yourself up to him (figuratively and literally!), giving him a chance for better foreplay.
"Try this in the kitchen and get innovative. Grab some interesting food for the foreplay," recommends Nisha Maediratta, a 27-year-old writer.
4. Back to basics
This allows him to explore your back, a very erogenous zone. You will love the feel of his chest against your back. Nisha says standing behind you allows your guy to feel you up better. "You can't see him while he is standing behind you. So, his hands come around out of nowhere, increasing the thrill," she says.
5. Doggie style
This is a variation of the last position. Get down on your fours and let him take you from behind. "This stimulates the clitoris, leading to an orgasm," Dr Jethani says.
Do this on the bed if you don't want your knees complaining later!
This is just the beginning. Surf the internet or buy a book and try as many different poses as possible before you find the one you like the best. "Innovation makes sex more interesting," says Dr Shah?
Wild is as wild does!
Sounds familiar?
Most of us women go through this situation. Sex isn't meant only to pleasure the male; so make sure you're not missing out on the fun, while he frolics around.
These are a few positions you could use to make sure you get to paradise along with him.
1. Woman on top
"The feeling of being in control can be a potent aphrodisiac by itself," says Dr Jagdish Shah, a sexologist. If you feel too exposed sitting astride your partner in bed, start off on the sofa where you can sit on his lap.
"This position is known to give a woman's clitoris maximum stimulation," says Dr Shah.
2. Old school
Enjoying the missionary position does not make you puritanical! Dr Rinky Jethani, a sexologist, explains many women love being dominated.
"This position can be explored in more ways than one. Talk dirty in each other's ears if you want to spice it up," she says.
3. Make him stand?
While you sit on a slightly higher surface. Since you are at the level of his waist, it doesn't take him much effort to penetrate you. You will be opening yourself up to him (figuratively and literally!), giving him a chance for better foreplay.
"Try this in the kitchen and get innovative. Grab some interesting food for the foreplay," recommends Nisha Maediratta, a 27-year-old writer.
4. Back to basics
This allows him to explore your back, a very erogenous zone. You will love the feel of his chest against your back. Nisha says standing behind you allows your guy to feel you up better. "You can't see him while he is standing behind you. So, his hands come around out of nowhere, increasing the thrill," she says.
5. Doggie style
This is a variation of the last position. Get down on your fours and let him take you from behind. "This stimulates the clitoris, leading to an orgasm," Dr Jethani says.
Do this on the bed if you don't want your knees complaining later!
This is just the beginning. Surf the internet or buy a book and try as many different poses as possible before you find the one you like the best. "Innovation makes sex more interesting," says Dr Shah?
Wild is as wild does!
